| You belong in an all male group of friends and all of them already have their girlfriend and you left alone having no one. You started to ask and evaluate yourself if there’s something wrong with you and ask why girls don’t like you. That’s a normal reaction for a guy that is in such situation, yes, maybe there’s something wrong with you that you should be aware of. How to chat up with girls is such a tough one but if you know the “correct” and “not correct” ways for this I guess this could be easier.
There are many reasons why a girl doesn’t want to go out with a guy. Here are few of those many reasons.
Lack of self-confident – How can you ask a girl even for her name if you are too shy to do it? Grow up! You can never find a girlfriend if you will stay that way.
Immaturity – Acting like you are just playing around, take note that girls have a strong instinct, they can recognize if you are joking around or not.
Over confidence – having self-confident is the very first thing a girl like to a guy but if you are overdoing it, I guess it’s not cute anymore. Don’t be so arrogant that will freak her out!
Lack of great personal hygiene – keep yourself clean and wear clothes that are fit to you. Don’t need to wear designer clothes in order to get notice. Just keep it simple and clean.
Trying hard to be funny – but if you’re not naturally funny don’t try too much.
Don’t know how to start a conversation – Start an interesting conversation, silence is no good, it is boring! But try no to talk too much too. Apply here the law of give and take relationship.
Connect with her – Find out what you guys have in common. Share something unique in you and if she also do the same, listen to her and compliment her.
That’s it! Just few of those many reason as what I said a while ago. I hope that would help you to be aware if there’s something missing or wrong why girls avoid going out with you.
If you are having trouble or too shy to ask a girl for a date maybe, why not ask some help from the experts. There are many tips and advices you can get from the internet and from the authors who published books for it.
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